If you want to get revenge on an ex, or a soon to be ex, you’ve got to have a clear head, and you’ve got to keep your cool, regardless how angry you might feel. We are going to dedicate this first article to getting revenge on a soon to be ex, who you already know is cheating on you.
The first thing you should do after you find out you partner is cheating on you, is to take a deep, deep breath and relax. If your partner even has a suspicion that you know about a relationship, He/She is going to clam up, and become even more covert. This will make it more difficult to catch them.
So, from today, until the day you finally get all the evidence (and even beyond that), you’re going to be cool, calm, collective and calculating.
Remember, unless you caught your partner redhanded, you’re only operating on hearsay. You’re looking for facts that can later help you to get deep in your partners pockets when it comes time for a divorce. This kind of revenge is going to hurt your partner’s finances, and reputation.
Here are 5 surefire ways to get the evidence
1. Dig Up Receipts
Dig through your partners pockets, purses, and dresser drawers. Look for ATM receipts, bank and credit card statements that have been torn up, and thrown away in the garbage.
Look for is unusual purchases on their credit cards. Did your partner say he goes to the gym every evening, and his credit card statements say he’s going to a secluded restaurant, or hotel during that same time?
By checking thrown away bank statements, you might also discover that your partner has other banking accounts, than the ones you know about. Those other bank accounts could be used to secretly pay bills for their lover. You can also check the time stamps and locations on ATM receipts to help with your investigation.
2. Check the Panties and Condoms
During times you might not have sex with your partner, check her panties. If she says she’s having coffee with the girls, and she comes back with semen in her panties, it’s same to assume that she’s having sex. Even if she quickly showered afterwards, she still might have semen that discharges onto her panties. Products such as CheckMate can detect semen discharge in minutes. They even advertise it as C.S.I. in a Box.
Even if your partner uses condoms with you, you might want to check his supply. If he buys them by the box, you might want to keep track of how many condoms he has. If condoms start disappearing between times that you didn’t have sex with him, you can be sure he’s using them on someone else (possibly during those same times he had to work late, or said he was at the gym).
3. GPS Them
By planting a GPS in your partner’s car or truck, you can get detailed reports about where the vehicle has been. In all of these circumstances, check the laws in the area where you live to make sure it’s legal.
4. Install a Keylogger
Keyloggers are secretly installed on computers to record keystrokes of everything that is typed on your keyboard. By installing a keylogger on the computer that your partner uses, you can find out who they’ve been contacting, what they’ve been saying, log in passwords, and even chat messages. Spector Pro is one of the best keyloggers available, and easy to use.
5. Get Telephone and Cellular Phone Records
Maybe your partner has an old cellular phone. Give them a new one for their birthday, Christmas, or your anniversary. Of course, the new phone should be equipped with GPS tracking! Many high-tech phones also allow call records to be secretly saved to a secret file that can only be downloaded by you.
Your partner might not be dumb enough to use your home phone to call a lover, but you never know. Check through your bill for numbers you don’t recognize, especially at times when you weren’t home. If you can get your hand on your partner’s cellular phone records, you might strike gold!
These are just 5 simple steps you can take to get revenge on an ex, or soon to be ex. Tomorrow, we will explain how to get revenge once the marriage, or relationship is over.